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From what I've seen and heard, doggy style is a very popular sex position...

Dear Joybloom: There was a day that my partner found out that I use my sex toy nearly every day, and he was super upset. Especially, he thinks I'd rather use sex toys but wouldn't have sex with him. What should I do? Is it normal to use sex toys when you are in a relationship? 

Dear The Joybloom: Hi, young adult female here. I am quite horny and become sexually active with my bf lately. But the issue is, no matter how hard he tries (I swear he really tries!), I just can't get there with him!

Hot flashes. Mood swings. A fading sex life. Menopause impacts you both. But you don't have to be a helpless bystander. Learn how to become a source of support and intimacy, and unlock a deeper connection with your partner through this change.

Dear The Joybloom: I always see anal toys display in sex toy website and it's in popular category! Is it worth trying at least once in my life? I really want to know!

Navigating the changes in your sex life during the perimenopause stage? This time can be a difficult time for many women, but you are not alone.